There’s always a bit of disappointment that comes with a relationship. It may be that he isn’t quite as into you as you are him, or maybe he says he loves you but taking things to the next level isn’t part of his current plan. Whatever it is, it can be disheartening and deeply disappointing.
Finding a man to love isn’t always easy. I know you understand exactly what I’m talking about. If you’re like me you’ve been in love with a man who suddenly showed his true colors and all those hopes and dreams you had go dashing out the door along with him.
Good men are few and far between and when you find one, you’re going to want to hold onto him for dear life. The problem becomes what if you’re holding on to him too tightly. What if your desire to be deeply connected to him actually results in you pushing him away?
This is a problem, that unfortunately, many of us don’t see until it’s too late. Our guy starts to pull away, we listen to his endless excuses about his work picking up or him having to help a sick family member and before we realize it, the relationship is on its last legs.
You don’t want this to happen if you believe the man you’re involved with now has the potential to be a life partner. I know too many women who say to me, “I had him Gillian and I let him go.” That’s a regret you never want to live with. In fact, I was out for dinner with a friend the other night and she boldly told me that she still misses her ex, and that although her husband is wonderful, loving and very kind, a part of her still wishes her life had taken a different turn – down the aisle with her ex.
In order to involve this type of scenario you have to create a bond that is so strong that your man can’t even fathom the thought of leaving you. Beyond that, you also want the connection to be so strong, between you two that his goal in life and the thing at the top of his daily priority list is to make you feel special, adored and cherished.
That sounds too good to be true, doesn’t it? I can assure you it’s not. Any woman, regardless of the state of her relationship right now can create an unbreakable and satisfying bond with her man.
One of the most important things you can do to get more out of your current relationship is to emotionally support your man. Accept him “as is.” Changing a man is a big no-no. Or at the very least being obvious in trying to change him. He wants and needs to feel that you love him exactly as he is, warts and all.
You also need to show him that you feel secure in his love for you. This can be a challenge if he’s the type to chat up every pretty girl that comes into focus. You have to try and rein in your jealousy though because a woman who can keep her composure when her man is engaged with another woman in a conversation or when his eyes glance over in the direction of a pretty girl – that’s the woman every man adores. If you can show your man, through your actions, that there isn’t a woman alive who intimidates you, your man will fall to his knees in admiration.
Once you understand exactly how to appeal to him on a deep emotional level, he’s going to melt into your arms.
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